Oprah: Husband Cheating

• Posted: July 20, 2008
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• Author: Junelle
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• Filed under: Simply Me
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• Tags: cheating, husband, mistress, mother, son, wife

I am watching Oprah now, and I am hearing the wive’s voices on what they would say to the mistress of their husband. One wife said something like this: “How could a woman live thinking that she is ruining a marriage and hurting another woman?”
I would like to answer this because at one point in my life, I have been in relationship with married men. I hope wive’s would read this with an open mind. I guess women who fall in a place of being a mistress are desperate women and that they think of nothing but to overcome that being desperate. Back to the question, How could a woman live thinking that she is ruining a marriage and hurting another woman - They are not thinking about that. I guess the focus of women who are desperate are to be happy, and men (husbands) who say some sweet things and needing this woman (mistress) makes this woman happy.
I am sorry that some people have to go through to this kind of episode of their life, but this is one challenge to test one’s love for someone and how strong your relationship is. I could not speak for men, because I am not one, but I hope my son will grow up to be a one woman man kind of man and I would teach him how to love truly and be honest with himself. I hope my son would grow up to be the man I wanted him to be, and if not, I would show him I am not supporting his bad decisions. I am a tough mom and when it comes to discipline, I discipline hard, and if my children doesn’t want to get hurt, they have to follow what I say.

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