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The title of the book is “You have the power to create love.” I was kind-of sad last week, so I decided to buy that since I heard Bo is a great inspirational writer. The first few lines I read got my attention. It was funny and I could sense the reality in it. I even thought I would buy one for “mi amore” to read, because he too would love it and have some laughs. However, in the mid part of the book, I notice that my smile is not as wide as it were when I opened the book and read those first lines; my smile is fading! It continues to fade, until I have reach to this point in where I thought I should express what I feel.

I haven’t finished the book yet, but I am like 80% done. This is the reason why I stopped:

… when I’m beating deadlines, very busy writing articles on my computer and then see my little son playing on the floor … I decide to leave my chair and sit on the floor with him …

I waste 35 minutes of my precious “executive” time for something that others would consider completely unproductive …

Did you notice something wrong in that statement? I DID! I would go straight to the point, it was the word “WASTE.” WHY it caught my attention? For me, that word is a negative one, and for him to use it as something to describe a time he spent for his son, just doesn’t seem to fit for me. A better statement could have been: “I SPENT 35 minutes of my precious …”

I am a person who often uses a wrong word in a statement, whether it be a dialect or english. I would then notice that after a second I mentioned it then try to correct myself if I have a chance to do so. Also, recently I’m noticing the goodness in things, so when a negative things come up, it really disapoints me.

Well, that’s me. What about you? What do you think?

My son will again be admitted at the hospital. I just don’t know what to do now!

I am watching Oprah now, and I am hearing the wive’s voices on what they would say to the mistress of their husband. One wife said something like this: “How could a woman live thinking that she is ruining a marriage and hurting another woman?”
I would like to answer this because at one point in my life, I have been in relationship with married men. I hope wive’s would read this with an open mind. I guess women who fall in a place of being a mistress are desperate women and that they think of nothing but to overcome that being desperate. Back to the question, How could a woman live thinking that she is ruining a marriage and hurting another woman – They are not thinking about that. I guess the focus of women who are desperate are to be happy, and men (husbands) who say some sweet things and needing this woman (mistress) makes this woman happy.
I am sorry that some people have to go through to this kind of episode of their life, but this is one challenge to test one’s love for someone and how strong your relationship is. I could not speak for men, because I am not one, but I hope my son will grow up to be a one woman man kind of man and I would teach him how to love truly and be honest with himself. I hope my son would grow up to be the man I wanted him to be, and if not, I would show him I am not supporting his bad decisions. I am a tough mom and when it comes to discipline, I discipline hard, and if my children doesn’t want to get hurt, they have to follow what I say.

Last June 29, 2008 (Sunday), my son had his first haircut. Me and my Mom decided to have him bald, because he often perspire and his head is often wet.

Here he is after the haircut:

His grandfather Atty. Hector Teodosio said that he looks like him, when he was young